This Was THE ONE THING Holding This Lady Back in Life

Every Christmas this one lady just had to make sure everything was perfect. There was just one problem, she hadn't even paid off her credit cards from last Christmas yet. The stress was mounting, her addictions to substances that reduced stress were growing and the walls were starting to close in on her.

In short. she wasn't really running her life at all. The calendar and societal expectation were. What she had or didn't have, never really factored into her daily calculations because she had become more like a non-thinking robotic machine, enslaved to something completely outside her control. She moved from one calendar-based event to the next, never reviewing how living according to ritual, tradition, custom and societal expectation....was really affecting her quality of life.

She was suffering from today's most frequent disease, which is.... "what will everyone else think?". What would others think of her, if she didn't do exactly what everyone else was doing? She tried to make her compliance with societal norms more acceptable, by admitting that she was indeed well outside a logical budget at Christmas. But then she dug in even harder saying that she was overspending into the stratosphere, in order to bring Christmas joy to her children. But does this really make any logical or rational sense, given her kids were simply getting taught by her (the omega/female leader of the tribe) to copy the exact same illogical holiday spending rituals when they finally left the nest. In some families this sort of insanity has been going on for hundreds of years.......and so has the misery, addictions and chaos that comes with it.

She just had to have everything perfect for Christmas, but she didn't really know why...and it was destroying her. She also just had to drink wine every Friday night with her friends, but she didn't really know why...and it was destroying her. She just had to watch TV every night for a couple hours, but she didn't really know why.....and it was destroying her. Her life kept circling the drain, getting closer and closer to fully collapsing, the more she followed the crowd. 

What was even more devastating was what the calendar (or the clock) wasn't telling her. The clock and the calendar never told her to quit drinking, quit watching TV and to exercise more. The clock and the calendar never told her that being alone for a long stretch, outside the influence of the group, is the most effective mental strength fortification system ever discovered in the natural world. The clock and the calendar never told her to design her own life, according to her own God given super-powers, as opposed to following the crowd right off a cliff....year in and year out. Why aren't our calendars or cultural rituals full of regular events that build strength? You already know why. You can't farm lions, only lambs. 

The one program that was holding this lady back was the program of perceived safety, found inside the consensus trance and inside the bigger group. Have you seen the bigger group these days? Sure, there used be safety in numbers but not anymore. It's actually the exact opposite. The only safety, real safety, is in very small successful groups. The average bigger group today looks like the crowd at Mos Eisley Catina Bar in Star Wars.

This lady loved getting all the high fives, which we're all given automatically, when we're a perpetual non-threat in our culture. Rule following, obedient, non-threat, lovers of the illusion....are the bells of the ball, down here on planet people pleaser. Yes, Joe and Jane Coffee Shop plus their close friends Mike and Michelle Maskwearer will always speak highly of you, if you're never going to challenge the slave system. Just do as you're told and you will always walk the VIP red carpet into your worst life, down here in Bergen Town. 

The truth here is simple. This lady was afraid to be different. She was afraid to be alone. She was afraid to be judged. She was afraid to be outside the herd. She was afraid of what everyone else would say, if she wasn't shoulder to shoulder with everyone else.....shovelling shit down at ABC Dirt Factory for life. She was afraid to be abundant because everyone else was broke. She was afraid to be healthy because everyone else was sick. She was afraid to be in shape because everyone else was bulbus. All the group pressure was to be below average, mediocre and underachieving.  She never matured in the areas that count, which includes finding your own path and taking the brutal attack from the mediocre hoards, when you take the path less travelled by.

And when I say "the path less travelled by" I don't mean having a slightly different tattoo, driving a slightly different car to a slightly different job you don't like, ordering a slightly different coffee, watching a slightly different movie on Netflix, having a different doctor poison you, ordering toxic takeout from a slightly different restaurant, ordering a slightly different drink at the bar, getting 1 booster rather than 2 or having a slightly different 1 week vacation twice per year. I mean having a completely different life that's satisfying in every way possible or at least working around the clock toward making that happen sometime in the future. 

The fear of what other people think is a prison. Living by the killer calendar is a prison. Doing what everyone else is doing will always get you what everyone else is getting..........which is a prison. The cartoon below sums things up perfectly. 

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