Terror, Trauma, Dating, Marriage and Modern Relationships

If we listen to author David A. Hughes, during his talk on the Fair Food Forager Podcast, we hear him explain that everything that happened to us during COVID, was a psychological operation designed to inflict maximum terror on the population.

This "perpetual abuse cycle", which is optimal for controlling any abuse victim, is very well known in psychology circles....... in regards to how abusive males control their wives or girlfriends etc. The abuser who gains the most control of their abuse victim, does so by making sure the abuse is constant and never ending. That's the special recipe that keeps the abuser in full control, at all times. 

In fact, when an abuser doesn't abuse their victims on a regular basis, the abuse victim can gather their wits quickly and enact forceful revenge. This becomes evident in many cases of "battered women's syndrome". Battered women's syndrome is an accepted legal defense, pertaining to a situation where a female abuse victim ends up murdering her male abuser. This well-known "abuse cycle" and its psychological effects are heavily involved in this legal defense. In many cases of battered women's syndrome (which ended in the abuser being murdered), the abuser lost control of his abuse victim, simply because he wasn't "consistent" with his abuse. This allowed the female to regain her mental and physical strength, to the point where she fought back. 

Saying all that, females can also gain control of their male counterparts, using most of the same psychological pathways. It's not just males who utilize abuse, terror and fear....in order to gain control of their abuse victims.

For example, I remember one man who was fully controlled by his wife....although the man was extremely fit, well over 6 feet tall and 250lbs. This wasn't physical abuse-based control, it was mental. Abuse is about weakening your victim, until they comply...due to the perpetual weakened state they sit in. That means abusers (especially females) don't have to use a "physical weakening" approach. Domination can be achieved via many forms of mental or spiritual weakening as well.

This man's wife would encourage him to drink alcohol on most nights, she isolated him away from his friends and family, she wouldn't allow him to exercise freely, she forced him to take poisonous psychiatric meds, she weaponized his children against him plus she applied generous helpings of guilt, shame and confusion whenever she could.

All his strength disappeared, leaving him under the full control of his abuser.......which was his wife at the time. He managed to gather his strength secretly, until he had enough power to make a break for his front door one day. He started to run and just kept running, never to return to the abusive prison masquerading as a family residence.

He's still recovering from this abuse to this very day. I don't know if he will ever recover fully. His abuser (his wife) never researched anything about mind control, brainwashing or psychological manipulation....even though she had obviously mastered many well-known aspects of MK ULTRA, through trial and error. The potential to abuse the people around us, so we gain more control over them, is inherent inside all of us. Control makes us all feel safe, so the more unsafe we feel inside, the more we'll feel drawn to control others.....in order to satisfy these baseline safety requirements inside our own nervous systems. 

The point here is that there are well researched formulas for controlling people through fear, terror, panic, trauma and general weakening. The people ruling us are well aware, via psychological research, that any abuse has to be consistent, in order to keep us fully under their control.

We may not even realize that we've all been on the receiving end of perpetual abuse, through government and media, our entire lives. We the public are the abuse victims, and the government and media are the perpetual abusers. Like any abuser, the end goal is full control.  I've even made an entire podcast regarding this concept, where I take an official "abuser check list" and compare it to what most governments have done to their populations since 2020. The title of the podcast is GOVERNMENT AS ABUSER. To be honest, we've all been abused by government, media, science and medicine our entire lives. We only fawn over our abusers in these institutions because fawning (honoring, loving, idolizing etc.) are well researched side effects of being a perpetual abuse victim. 

Now onto the dating, marriage and relationship part of this article. Abuse victims have a long list of wild characteristics they hold..........which makes long-term romantic relationships with them extremely difficult. Here's a short list of some of the side effects associated with being abused by government and media.....or by your parents, friends or relatives when you were a child. The end results are the exact same. 

• Anger
• Numbness or difficulty feeling any strong emotions
• Like you have lost your identity or a sense of who you are
• Scared or panicked
• Grief
• Worried
• Irritable
• Confused
• Restless
• Unsure of what you need or want
• Hypervigilance - which is when you are very alert and aware of your surroundings because you feel something bad might happen
• Shock or horror
• Shame

This means that most people today carry these "traits" due to the endless abuse they've suffered in general, since the day they've been born. Dating abuse victims is beyond challenging. You might even be trying to get close to one right now and it's not working. You may also be in a full relationship or marriage with a person who checks all these boxes already....and of course I already know things are beyond "tough" for you at the moment. We've all been abused by government and media. That's the starting point for our relationship dysfunction. After that, we run into many other forms of abuse and trauma during our time down here on the planet. These ongoing stressors compound over time, inside our fragile nervous systems. It doesn't have to be like this. We need to remove all abusers from our lives, even if it's the government, media, medicine, science etc., etc. 

There are some solutions of course. For every problem, there is a solution. Divorce is expensive and breakups can be extremely painful. Children, shared assets and businesses are involved in some cases........so maybe a second look at things is warranted. Let's take a different look at things and table easy to implement solutions.....before you throw in the towel. If you're having relationship issues, please click here, to learn about the small fee event that I'm offering starting in early August. It's time to take a different look at solving these problems.