She Destroyed Everything Good in Her Life - Here's Why It Became Her Pattern

She had a good job but she lost that eventually. She had a good man but destroyed that connection as well. She had lots of friendships in the past but somehow, she got in fights with most of her friends.....to the point where she couldn't call anyone reliable when it was really needed. She did have a current boyfriend, but he was more of a fixer upper. The question is, "why did she get rid of the best boyfriend she ever had, only to replace him with a fixer upper?"

She also had a job currently, so she wasn't unemployed. She did have a couple friends left, so she wasn't completely alone on that front. When she was by herself at night (when everything got quiet), she had to admit that her current job wasn't the best...especially in comparison to the job she walked out on. Some of her friends did remain, but most were overweight, under achieving, addicted, sick, negative and mostly divorced. (or in unsatisfying relationships) What was going on here? Life was getting harder every year, when in reality, life should get easier as we age. We all gain experience throughout the game of life, which means we should get better at the game. Life wasn't just hard for this lady; it was getting unbearable. 

She was indeed starting to see the pattern herself. Why was she constantly destroying the great things that happened to come her way in life? Why did she feel more comfortable hanging out with the turkeys, as opposed to flying high with the eagles? She always wanted the best things in life, and yet she appeared to constantly accumulate the worst things, over the long haul. That's when she contacted me, a certified overcoming self-sabotage coach. I only get emails when people are sick and tired of staying the same, even though they try to do everything they can to change for the better. That bravery to reach out to me paid off massively for her, as her self-destructive behavior was extremely easy to explain and remedy. In the field of overcoming self-sabotage coaching, she was known as a "FIRESTARTER SABOTEUR". 

The first thing I had to explain to her, is how her behavior is manufactured and operated by a part of the mind she knows nothing about. Below is a video regarding that secret part of the brain, basically taking control of the behavior of three teenagers. If you know how this secret part of the brain works, you can reprogram it at any time and in any way you wish. There's another person in the video with the three teenagers, who knows how this secret part of the brain works...and of course he's the one controlling the behavior of the teenagers, with just a couple simple words and images.  In life you can either control your own behavior and programming or something else will. There is no door #3 unfortunately. 

In short, this lady was destroying everything good in her life because it was programmed into her, in the same way that the man in the video above programmed his intended behaviors into the teenagers. There are many offending parties in play, who profit when the general public are programmed to destroy themselves, while believing that their behavior is organic to them. The three teenagers above were not in control of their behavior. The lady in question was also not in control of her behavior. It's that simple. She didn't believe it at first but after a couple hours of consultation, she understood it completely and wanted to move ahead with the reprogramming options. 

After that, I simply helped her hack this secret part of the brain, in a positive way. This secret part of the brain can be programmed for good times or bad times, depending on who's in control and who the programmer is. Her TV, movies, radio songs, other mass media, government etc. were all in control of her past programming. These are the sources of programming that always throw people into the ditch of life, as those programming sources represent the entities who profit immensely when the public stays perpetually weak, sick, underachieving, dull, listless, disempowered and unmotivated. After we started to reprogram, some very big changes manifested for her immediately, with huge changes coming within the year. When she looked back after 12 months of reprogramming, she said, "wow, I've come so far, this is incredible, I can't believe I used to be that other person only 1 year ago". 

It doesn't matter if you want to be the best actor, best Mother or best Dad. Maybe you want to lose weight, quit drinking, stop watching TV, deal with your phone scrolling addiction, start a business, invest your extra money wisely or you just want to feel calmer inside this crazy modern world. Regardless of your goal, you'll need to apply the same solution. You'll need to learn about this secret part of the brain, how it works and then you'll have to learn how to hack it for positive change. That's it. Nothing complex. Being better is simple. Simple is powerful. 

I teach a professional program in this regard and a public program as well, where members of the general public can learn how to overcome all their personal self-sabotaging behaviors. The public offering is called THE POWER IN YOU PROGRAM and it starts again Jan 9th, 2025. It's inexpensive, it's affordable, it's effective and the changes are rapid. An inexpensive payment plan is available to make everything smooth and care-free. You're in control. You can participate online from anywhere in the world. It's better to address these issues earlier, compared to later. It's all about doing the right thing at the right time, as opposed to waiting until a big storm hits and then reacting when things are chaotic. Click here to join myself and 100-200 other people on Jan 9th, as we all set sail for calmer waters in 2025.