Mind Control Analysis #2 - When Your Romantic Partner or Spouse Uses Mind Control Against You

After researching mind control, propaganda, brainwashing and behavior modification for 15 years......I noticed something pretty odd when I started to talk to various people in bad (or already failed) relationships. Many controlling (narcissistic) people were indeed using conventional mind control tactics against their romantic partners or spouses. These mind control tactics had a devastating effect on each victim, who were on the receiving end of what can only be called "narcissistic abuse". 

All of what I observed (over several years) was happening without the controlling and attacking partner having any formal education in mind control or behavior modification tactics. At that point I understood that the need to control others is not only hard wired into us on some level, but it appears that this sort of controlling personality often erupts out of people who failed to feel safe at crucial times during their childhoods.

The more feelings of insecurity and fear during childhood, the more likely a person is to develop a controlling personality, in order to finally re-establish proper feelings of safety and attachment, in their adult years. It's obviously very important to understand that although we all have had traumatic childhoods (across a very wide spectrum), we do need to recognize these types of control-based adaptations in our potential partners, where they try to control us emotionally......through psychic manipulation.

As for people doubting my statement that we've all had traumatic childhoods in one form or another, let me say this. The government is good example of an entity that literally abuses us severally, each and every day. This form of abuse is so common and so normalized in our society, that most people fail to recognize it.....which is a well-documented symptom of any domestic abuse victim. Abuse victims usually lack the ability to properly frame both their abuser and the abuse they're enduring. I made an entire podcast on this one topic.

It's also important to recognize if we personally hold such abusive behaviors inside of ourselves. We can only do this if we're brave enough to turn the telescope of inquiry inward. It's easier to see dysfunctional control patterns in others. It's extremely difficult to recognize the same dysfunctional patterns inside of ourselves. That's just how humans work unfortunately. Earth is a school in a sense. We're all here to learn, evolve and grow. To be successful with this earth experience, it's always important to review our own behaviors, beliefs and ideas from time to time.

I'm tabulating this topic today so that the average person can understand when mind control is being used against them by their romantic partners. Dysfunctional relationships require 1 of 2 remedies. If a dysfunctional relationship presents itself, it either needs grow and heal, or the relationship needs to end. If a relationship has to end, the painful lessons learned in the past need to be moved over to help build a better romantic relationship in the future.

Understanding mind control isn't just about educating yourself in case the government and media team up again, to coordinate another fatal and disastrous psyop upon the public.....like they did during COVID. Everyone needs to understand the base foundations of mind control and brainwashing, so they can quickly identify unhealthy behavioral patterns in their own relationships.

I do remember seeing one man, who wasn't doing well mentally or physically inside his marriage. When I investigated his living environment a little further, it became clear that his wife was one of these mind control experts I observed in the past, absent of her having any formal training in the areas of behavior modification or covert forms of brainwashing.

His wife would encourage him to consume anti-depressants, which of course have never been proven to lift depression. In fact, anti-depressants are proven to increase depression and suicidal tendencies in many patients.  Anti-depressants simply help the person disassociate, which is a fancy psychological/psychiatric term for "to disconnect from one's nervous system and from reality as well:" 

Paramedics are taught about "shock", which can often present itself in trauma inducing accidents (in say a car accident) where the trauma of the accident can induce a form of dissociation in the survivors. Survivors of car accidents have often been killed after surviving the car accident itself, by simply wondering into oncoming traffic, as their dissociated nervous systems become detached from reality.

With a dissociating survivor of a car crash, you must simply grab them and direct them toward safety, as people who experience such PTSD incidents are extremely compliant to command (or force).....as they're not in full control of their own faculties, direction or will.

Drugging anyone with any sedative toxic substance induces the exact same effect. Antidepressants are exactly that, sedative and extremely toxic. Sedated people are extremely compliant and easier to mind control. This man's wife encouraged the drugging her husband, to keep him under greater forms of control. I must say (as a side note) that when this man was given complete freedom, some of his behaviors were adversarial to the marriage. Saying that, encouraging your partner to keep drugging himself, is never the answer to an unsatisfying relationship. 

She also isolated him from his friends and family, which is another well-known mind control tactic, reviewed by Dr. Joost Meerloo, in his groundbreaking book on mind control and brainwashing. After this man was isolated in his own home (without the support of family and friends who could offer him a more empowering counter narrative), all he could do was watch TV. Oddly enough watching TV induces a form of trance, essential for deep hypnosis and extremely effective mind control, on top of the other stuff she was throwing at him.

This man was also encouraged to drink alcohol, as his wife would indeed join him for nightly alcohol consumption......which induces a similar form of poison-based mind control compared to what we observe with anti-depressants. Any toxin is proven to reduce what's called "mental resiliency", which is a fancy word for "free will". Without high mental resiliency (due to poisoning) the ability of someone else to take full control of your perceptions and behaviors, increases exponentially. 

When this man would try to protest, in order to gather his strength outside the home (with friends, family, or even by exercising etc) his wife would use guilt and shame as yet another documented mind control weapon, gaslighting him to believe that his drugging and isolation were what worked best for keeping the relationship stable and operational.

The only people permitted to visit the household were her friends and family, who also used guilt and shame (tied to some of his past failures in the marriage) to keep him surrounded by a consistent wave of disempowering energy. Guilt and shame are some of the lowest vibrations measured to come out of the human body. Weakening the mind control victim to the nth degree, helps improve the efficiency of any mind control campaign. Guilt and shame were also mind control weapons used effectively against the public during COVID, as questioning the one-sided COVID narrative had you marked as "killing someone's grandmother" or being "anti-science" etc. 

In the end, all mind control campaigns (regardless if we're talking about individuals abusing their partners or governments abusing an entire population) are based on keeping the mind control victim weak. During the COVID mind control operation, the government and media tag teamed the public to make them weak across many different fronts. (mentally, financially, spiritually, intellectually etc)

Inside this domestic abuse situation (of the wife abusing and mind controlling her husband), the goals of the mind control campaign were exactly the same. It was all about keeping the mind control victim weak because weaker animals are easier to control. This is also why we (as a society) farm cows instead of lions and farm salmon instead of sharks. The weaker the prey, the easier the hunt. 

Mind control is usually a topic that's framed in a way where bad actors in government and media use psychological manipulation to keep tighter control over the uninformed masses. Unfortunately, the exact same tactics can be used against individuals, in personal relationships as well. It's up to all of us to educate on this very important topic, so we can sidestep any attempts to place us under mind control. It doesn't matter if it's a personal relationship or dealing with our perpetual mind control abusers hiding behind government and media, if you don't educate on the foundations of mind control......things can go very bad, very quickly. 

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