How Others Can Help You Heal by Showing You What Work You Didn't Do Yet

Mar 14, 2025

The picture above is of course me and a beautiful lady named Kristine. How we met, I've written about last year. It's a story of fate and hope. You can read about our chance meeting in Acapulco Mexico, if you click here. I'm from Canada and she's from Latvia, so of course the chances that we run into each other at a random bus stop, outside my hotel in Acapulco, are very small. Was it a random event or was it more than a chance happening?

At the bus stop Kristine and I caught each other's eye for a brief second. She thought I was a shallow North American with my sunglasses on and I believed she was a lost hippie, who was most likely staying in a tent on the beach. There were many of us waiting for the bus that day, not just the two of us. The story of that first bus ride together is not only quite entertaining but it appears that an ancient invisible hand was trying to guide us toward each other, for reasons that I would only start to understand years later.

This invisible hand (which I believe shapes our lives in more ways than we know) had lots of work to do in order to bring us together, as we both admitted later in the relationship that I wasn't her type, and that she wasn't my typical type either. And so goes the mysteries of life. Many bizarre things happen to all of us I believe, as we walk our own personal journeys on this planet. Many of these bizarre occurrences that happen to us aren't accidents or chance happenings.....or so that's my current understanding now anyway. A mysterious invisible hand appears to always be working hard to deliver us what we need to evolve, progress and become better.

I will describe Kristine as a "natural human", on countless levels. Kristine appears to be a person who is untouched by certain Western influences, which can easily corrupt the soul...outside our conscious awareness as Westerners. She spent the first 11 years of her life living under Russian communist rule in Latvia. Communism is about ruling by fear and making sure the public is weakened on as many levels as possible, in order that the ruling class pillage the resources of the country, as the same pillagers masquerade as an altruistic force that's working hard to restore equal rights for the people. Like all ruling class governmental structures, it's all based on lies, and it damages the people in ways that are hard to comprehend. 

This extremely harsh way of living has left some scars inside Kristine's innocent psyche (which I point out for her at times). I also believe that these harsh and challenging times that Kristine has gone through, with no luxuries to be had whatsoever, have also preserved the original human heart she was born with. She is so caring of nature, the natural world, animals, others, her family and her elders who have passed on.....that you just feel yourself being pulled back into an ancient time, where this sort of care was normal in all people and within in all communities.

My Western influences are something I recognize more now, which has helped me find more balance in my life. Kristine has shown me the work I need to do, in order to improve myself. I need to work on my balance. My Western life of, "I want all the good things right now", had left me unable to enjoy the world and to find balance in a natural way. It appears that Kristine carries the messages of nature itself potentially. Did the invisible hand organize our bus stop meeting because it understood that for me to evolve, balance is required? 

As a Westerner, I didn't really like nature, compared to the endless lights, sounds and fun in the big city. Kristine has taken me into some beautiful Latvian fields to pick wild tea many times. I was rolling my eyes most of the way, during the long walks through these fields, until the vibration of nature started to sink in and do what it's designed to do. In communist times, you couldn't buy almost any tea, you had to pick it yourself. Balance is what I needed and that's what I'm getting. Was this why the invisible hand was working so hard in Acapulco that night, at the bus stop, to bring these two stubborn donkeys together? Below is one of the first pictures I took while visiting Latvia, of a tea picking trip in some beautiful green fields there. 

While picking tea or mushrooms in the Latvian forest, Kristine would always bend a knee and place her hand on the forest floor, in order to ask the forest for permission to enter. As a Westerner, I would simply look at her and think "why are you doing that, you just walk in, you don't need to ask permission?". I was missing balance in the spiritual realms and with some basic respect of Universal energy plus Univeral consciousness.

Fast forward to today and I'm also making a blessing to the forest spirits as I enter. Kristine also hugs the trees and speaks to the trees, as she walks through the wilderness. The Latvian forest was life itself in communist times, as the Soviets constantly tried to starve their citizens into submission. Although the Soviets would provide some basic food stuffs for their citizens, the goal was to feed the masses a certain number of calories (to inhibit rebellion) but to also keep the citizens undernourished.....in order to make them easier to rule, govern and exploit. Berries, mushrooms and other natural foods in the forest were essential for maintaining optimal nutrition. Without a solid partnership with nature, many Latvians would never have had the strength to survive as long as they did. This is where such respect for the forest comes from.

Kristine has her favorite trees that she runs up to for a chat, in certain areas of the woods. As she stands there hugging a tree and having a chat with the spirits, I no longer think anything of it. I no longer roll my eyes at such activities, as the balance is starting to return to my own body, mind, spirit and soul. Yes, respect and balance are the lessons here. Parts of my soul that were lost are actually coming back, simply because I'm witnessing such acts of kindness, consideration and respect. I didn't know some of those pieces of myself were missing. Now I do. This is how other people can magically come into your life, to show you what work you haven't done yet.

Wherever we go, whether it's Italy, Turkey, Romania, Mexico or Vienna........Kristine is always slipping into some random grocery store, only to come out with large bags of pet food. She does this everywhere she goes and it's for the animals who need help. Again, as I see this, a lost spark returns to my heart, which appears to have gone missing decades ago. Even in the rain, Kristine will run out and feed an animal in need, forcing me to participate, where before I wouldn't have even considered helping animals in need during my vacation. I remember buying her one of her favorite meals in Turkey. She promptly took the entire dish out her hands and threw the entire meal out the window, to a dog that obviously needed to eat. At first, I was like, "what are you doing, I just bought that for you and now you're going to be hungry".......and yet slowly but surely, I started to understand the good that was happening right in front of me and also inside of me.

What is also very odd.....is that it's not just me who is soothed by this "natural human" balanced vibration and frequency. I've travelled to speaking events with many world-famous authors and freedom advocates. Often, we're seated at dinner tables with each other, and there's a certain energy in the air, as none of us really know each other. That means everyone at the table are somewhat reserved.......until Kristine sits down. For some reason, everyone starts to feel extremely relaxed, as Kristine starts to make all the speakers feel grounded, calm and at peace with themselves. As future speaking events are organized, many of the speakers have personally messaged me, in order to make sure Kristine was coming to the next speaking engagement. No mention of me, just to make sure Kristine was coming. Ha Ha. It's easy to see that it's not only me who needs rebalancing, it's many of us. Many more people in the world need this rebalancing between the modern and natural realms. 

Here below we are sitting in Romania after a speaking engagement at The Romanian Palace of the Parliament. The famous Canadian Dr. Stephen Malthouse is at the table with his wife Liz. Author and professor Mattias Desmet was also seated at our table. Kristine made everyone feel at home and because of that, we were all blessed that evening, with something that only peace and natural balance can bring. When I met Mattias the next day, as well as the Malthouses, their first question was....."where's Kristine, will she be joining us for breakfast?"

Kristine has also gifted me something that I've never experienced before. She has allowed me to expose my deepest wounds to her and she will just sit there without judgement, in order that I recognize the areas I still need to focus on, regarding my own evolution. This allows my wounds to take the spotlight, without any push back by her, which then allows me to recognize the work I haven't done yet. She is really the most loving and caring person I've ever had the pleasure of holding hands with. It's like I'm holding hands with nature itself, which is extremely empowering and soothing. 

Here's one example. Through self-analysis, it's obvious to me that I have a moderate form of PTSD. This is simply from living in the Western world or what I like to refer to as planet mental asylum. I'm on edge more than most, because of my perpetual exposure to stressful situations. I jump the highest in any group, when a sudden noise fires out into the area where I'm sitting. That's only one sign of an overactive protective immune response. My sleep isn't the best. I work hard on safety protocols more than most and I'm obsessed with physical fitness and business....which are both protection-based adaptations to the world. Relaxing is hard for me unless I take a real vacation where I can't work because my tools of work are missing......internet, computer etc. In short, I'm a little on edge, to say the least. 

What caused this heightened over-reaction you may ask? Well, everything from circumcision to vaccination and from the government always trying to destroy its citizens to the unhealthy toxic lifestyle I used to live for the first 2 and half decades of my life.......this has all lead to some upregulated defense posturing in my metabolism and in my neurological system. Yes, I have some problems. I've also come a very long way from where I was, but Kristine allows me to expose the work that I still need to do on myself

Due to this moderate socially inflicted PTSD, sometimes I can get what's often referred to as THE AIRES FIRE. Kristine calls it "the werewolf." It's the same thing really. These are little bouts of anger and rage at the world, where excessive ranting and raving may occur. My natural human counterpart of course (Kristine) simply looks at me and cocks her head a bit (with a slight smile), to subtly cue me that I need to step out of my own body for a second and look closely at my own behavior and what words I'm using to cast spells upon myself. She has done this subtle cuing to the point now where I can easily recognize that balancing my fear and love of the world, is the next big step I need to take in my evolution.

Is this why the invisible hand worked so hard in Mexico, to make sure we talked frequently over the weeklong freedom event, which we were both attending. Kristine sees the natural human in me, even though I may have failed to see it for a very long time. Kristine's patience is also the sign of a natural human, whose heart is still intact and working as God designed it to be. Due to this patience, the werewolf has come out less and less since the invisible hand arranged our togetherness. Kristine's presence in my life feels like God himself telling me, "It's OK, you can relax now, it's OK, let's get you the balance you need to feel safe in the world, breathe and sink into your natural vibration, the next big leg of your mission for me will require a new balanced approach."

In the end, I also heal Kristine with my knowledge and unique frequency as well. Her exposure to communism has inflicted some fear deep in her metabolism as well. Some of these wounds I often help with, by identifying and discussing them with her as they come up. Maybe she can share in an article of her own, as to how I help her, sometime in the future. Let's hope that article is more than a couple lines. Ha Ha. I believe we help each other in different ways. 

For now, I just wanted to get some words down regarding the mystery of life, the perpetual journey of growth we're all on and the beautiful natural human that was guided my way by an invisible force that loves and cares for all of us.  

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