2 Different Ladies Both Destroying the Good in Their Lives - Here's Why

You'll quickly understand, from these two stories, why I decided to dedicate my entire life to the study of mind control, brainwashing and the operation of the subconscious. Let me tell you the story of 2 different ladies, both of whom were consistently destroying the good in their own lives. 

First, let's take Julia. Julia was raised in a family where men were honored more than women. This was common maybe 70 years ago, throughout many Western nations. Julia was deeply impacted psychologically by this and frankly, she started to despise men in general because her mother would give her brothers more attention than her and her sisters.

Our subconscious seeks safety and security, sort of like an invisible heat seeking missile, within our own lives. The subconscious works outside our consciousness awareness, which means we can certainly end up with some weird outcomes in our life...which we wouldn't logically want for ourselves.

Julia's subconscious understood clearly that it was safer to be a man and that it was less safe to be a woman. The subconscious, if not interfered with, will always get its way with our life direction. (over the long haul) Our lives are basically the result of how our subconscious invisibly steers us toward "the safe and secure areas in life", within the environment we live in.

Julia first became a tomboy to try and gain safety within her original family home. She then started enrolling in sporting events, traditionally reserved for male participation. Eventually Julia volunteered for a double mastectomy, started taking male hormones and changed her name to a man's name. This helped complete her subconscious dream of becoming a man, in order that her mother finally love her and make her feel safe in the world. Today Julia fully realizes what happened and now understands that it was her subconscious need for safety, which has driven her to completely destroy her ability to have any children of her own. Julia didn't know how the subconscious works. She has some regrets about not educating in this area much earlier. That's OK, we all make some mistakes. Once we know better, only then can we do better. She didn't really want to be a man; she just wanted her mother to love her, hold her and make her feel safe. The subconscious just had its own ideas of how to make all that happen.

Let's now take Chantel. Chantel also wasn't aware of her subconscious or how it worked. Chantel, like most other people, didn't even know she had a separate part of her brain, which has its own distinct code of conduct and its very own communication language. Chantel, like most other people, believed that she was in full control of her own behavior and that her chaotic lifestyle was simply the result of bad luck, dark fate or negative circumstance. Nothing could be farther from the truth. 

Chantel grew up in a house where her father was rarely home. The subconscious looks for patterns in our environment and establishes the most frequent patterns as normal, expected and predictable. Normal, expected and predictable are simply different words that mean SAFE and SECURE.

If you get used to a man not being in the house and then a man does show up in the house daily, it registers as "unexpected", "not normal" and a situation you haven't dealt with before. The subconscious likes all days to be the same, so it knows what to expect and how to navigate what's coming down the pipe. It doesn't matter if the "normal" or "predictable" day is disastrous......that's what the subconscious will always recreate because having an amazing day is simply unknown and unpredictable. 

Chantel was used to "the man" not being in the home. This became her normal and what was expected. She had a long string of boyfriends who never worked out because they were never around too much. Their absence from her life felt familiar and comfortable, so no wonder this was the only type of relationship she ever felt drawn to. The bond between Chantel and these unavailable men never deepened or strengthened, so eventually these relationships all failed in succession.

Chantel then "consciously" realized one day that she really did want a man in the home on a permanent basis. Who wouldn't? It's simply natural to share the burdens of life with another. That was her conscious mind talking unfortunately, which will always lose the battle with the subconscious. The subconscious has 90X the power of the conscious mind. The subconscious always wins, so you better know how to talk to it and reprogram it, if it's consistently leading you astray. 

Chantel finally found a man who loved being next to her all the time. They both decided to move in and that's when the trouble started. Chantel never had a script for navigating life with a man in the home full time. Her Dad's absence conditioned her subconscious that having a man or father figure in the home full time was "uncomfortable", "unsafe" and "not secure".

Chantel felt some really weird energy come over her when they finally decided to move in together. Chantel's head was quickly full of "questions" regarding her blossoming union with her first full time man in the home. Oddly enough, at the exact same time Chantel started to feel extremely attracted to the barista at her local coffee shop, while she already had a great man at home, who was fully dedicated to her and her children. 

What Chantel discovered, by working with me as on Overcoming Self Sabotage Coach, is that she wasn't really attracted to the barista. She was attracted to the idea of a part time man in her life. The barista only talked to her during her coffee pick up (only a couple of minutes) and that short male interaction was what she was used to. The barista was a surrogate for her Dad's brief interactions with her in the past. Her subconscious was therefore programmed to reject a full-time loving man and run after men who were never truly available to her, simply because that was the most repetitive pattern her subconscious was conditioned to deal with. Her subconscious was driving her life around, with disastrous results. If you're having a hard time in life, regardless of how much effort you exert to make things better, something like this is most likely what's happening inside of your neurology as well.

The subconscious has its own computer language or code. Knowing this subconscious code and computer language goes a very long way to solving problems like this. I helped reprogram Chantel in time, in order to save her new blossoming relationship with her first full-time partner. Chantel was still attracted to men who had absolutely no time for her, but now she finally understands where this illogical attraction comes from. With my reprogramming of her subconscious, life is still getting better and better each day for Chantel. 

As for Julia, we're still working on reprogramming her subconscious to feel safe in the woman's body she was born into. With her breasts now missing and her body in metabolic shock form the male hormones, she faces a longer road of reprogramming and strengthening. With my knowledge as an Overcoming Self Sabotage Coach, Julia may have passed on from her mutilating self-attacks and Chantel would most likely still feel more comfortable being single, while longing for safety inside a long-term relationship. This sort of coaching saves lives and makes the world a little bit better every day.

Our subconscious and the patterns hidden there, rule us all from the shadows. Government and media also routinely hack the natural function of the subconscious, for nefarious purposes. This negative programming by government and media is very common today unfortunately. We generally know this process of negative government and media hacking as brainwashing, behavior modification and mind control.

Not only can our natural environment hack our subconscious in a negative way when we're growing up, (like what happened to Julia and Chantel) our government and media work around the clock trying to program us for disaster as well. This is the exact reason why this information is the most powerful in the entire world, in my opinion, for improving people's lives......in the shortest amount of time possible.

Maybe you would like to become a Certified Overcoming Self Sabotage Coach? Maybe you would like to help women like Julia and Chantel lead better lives? Maybe you would like to help men as well, with their own subconscious challenges? Maybe you would like to start reprogramming yourself and overcome your own self sabotage? That's the best place to start. 

I'm teaching a group of 100 new students (plus 100 former students and coaches) the fine art of Overcoming Self Sabotage Coaching starting Oct 25th 2025.....which is in a couple of days. Anyone can afford to join, because of our new payment plan. You get to work with me LIVE. I'll make sure you're perfectly ready to take some huge steps upwards in your own life. I also know getting better is scary. It was scary for Julia and Chantel as well. That's where learning how to reprogram your subconscious comes into play. We have 10 spots left out of the 100 seats in our school. We're 90% full as of today, with two days to go before we start the class this Saturday. I would love to see you on opening day. Click here to learn all about the program and to secure your spot. Let's get better together.