What is Coffee Brain and Is It Causing Stress in Your Marriage or Relationship?
Jul 30, 2025
What is coffee brain? Well, it's a combination of symptoms based on how caffeine interacts with the human nervous system. Caffeine is what's known as an alkaloid poison. This word "alkaloid" means that the plant itself produces caffeine as a pesticide. The coffee plant isn't the only plant that produces caffeine to kill bugs and to kill competing foliage. Many other plants do so as well. In short, caffeine is a poison that many plants use to defend themselves.
When humans consume this poison (caffeine), it stimulates their sympathetic nervous system. This includes activation of a human's natural fight or flight system. When a human is in fight or flight, there are some changes in brain function that ARE NOT conducive to long term relationship success or successful marriages etc.
The fight or flight system operates out of the most primal part of our brain complex, in the back of the skull. This part of the brain is extremely low IQ, overly sexual and can only think "short term". This short-term thinking function means that this part of the brain can't comprehend the long-term impacts of its decisions. This part of the brain is basically the "caveman" part of the brain, the perpetual nonthinker.
As we can see in the video below, one small cup of coffee cuts blood flow to the brain by 40%, That was just a guess by the neurologist being interviewed. When this effect was accurately measured, it was 52%.
So, imagine this. You or your partner are drinking coffee or consuming other sources of caffeine daily. It's 2025 and the world is experiencing massive upheaval and rapid inflation. This means overall stress is on the rise. World governments are attempting to destroy the fabric of most Western nations through something called "disaster capitalism", which in short means.....they're trying to destabilize everything. including your own mind, body and spirit.
Imagine trying to deal with all this, with only half the normal blood flow to your brain? Imagine trying to navigate relationship pressure when a short-term thinking, low IQ and overly sexual part of the brain is activated by caffeine consumption.
I remember this one man who lost big time when he strayed inside his marriage. He had an affair at a time when his career was really moving skyward. Instead of making the best of it, and taking care of his family for life, he crashed to the ground and lost everything because of the affair. He was a daily coffee drinker. Did coffee's activation of his limbic (flight or fight system) cause his affair? We don't know for sure but caffeine is indeed an "anti-bonding/anti relationship" sort of chemical. Science avoids answering this question as well and that's because coffee shops aren't on every corner by accident. There's something going on with coffee and caffeine, that's hidden from the general public.
In the end, this is one factor out of maybe 100 factors.......that can change a person's internal chemical composition, to make them not the best partners, spouses etc. When you want to have relationship success, you're going to have to tip the odds in your favor, by turning up the good parts of the human brain.....while simultaneously turning down the bad parts.
The divorce of the guy I just mentioned took him from millionaire to a stressed man.... living cheque to cheque. He had it all and he burnt it to the ground. I know his wife as well. Everything they were doing (habit wise) meant that their relationship had an extremely low chance of success in the first place. Everything that brings the worst out in human behavior, they were both doing. They were jacked up on every popular form of mental and physical poison imaginable, which are proven to make humans function more like animals, rather than advanced spiritual beings.
And to top it all off, when these two recently divorced people meet someone new to date, they're bringing all those "anti-bonding/anti-connection" habits with them into the next relationship. Very few people understand the underlying agendas in play right now, within our "disaster capitalism" economy.
There's an official drive right now in government and media, to facilitate as many divorces as possible. The majority of divorces and failed relationships today aren't organic; they're being socially engineered. If you don't know anything about these documented agendas, you're most likely going to fall prey to them.
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